Living Beyond Your Means
When our parents were young, living beyond their means would be equivalent to taking a vacation they couldnít afford. Today, it is quite different. Taking long trips abroad, buying cars and jewelry would be considered normal for many people.
We all want what we can’t have. Sure, some of us would love to retire and not have to worry about paying off the mortgage or similarly, move to another state and begin a new life free of debt.
When we play the weekly lottery, we are hoping against hope that we’ll win for no other reason than we would love to buy a new home for mom and dad, send the kids to college, pay off the car loan, or travel to anywhere.
The reality is we are much more likely to be struck by lightening than win the lottery. Oddly enough, it may take a bolt of lightening to bring us back to reality. Fantasy Island was just a show, but for some, it is living a life that is in complete contradiction to the balance sheet in oneís life.
There are so many people in debt today and the numbers are growing. When the sub-prime mortgage debacle occurred, most of the individuals affected were the unfortunate victims of unscrupulous characters who sought to make a quick buck. For others, buying a home that was far beyond their ability to pay put them in dire straits.
People who live beyond their means have no conception of money. An example would be someone who was brought up in a poor household. He probably swore that some day anything he desired would be his. Conversely, another person who grew up in a similar situation may be a saver - prepared for any eventuality, yet living comfortably and modestly.
If our parents couldn’t afford to buy something, there was no discussion or compromise, it just wasn’t purchased. Today, with credit card applications offering zero interest, with incentives from mortgage companies and banks, with infomercials claiming, “You, too, can become rich and live in luxury for the rest of your life.”, it’s no wonder we have become a nation in debt.
Every day, there is one ad or another in a local newspaper or online offering a quick and easy way to earn thousands of dollars. Yes, we all want what we can’t have. If you think about it psychologically, it is the quest that is enticing: the journey to fabulous fortunes that is luring individuals to stray from what they know is the truth.
Living beyond one’s means is a problem for many, but the bigger problem lies at the end of the quest when the bills start rolling in and there isn’t enough money in the budget to pay the debts.